"stop trying to dance to a rhythmn that isn't yours. nothing out there belongs in here"
About Me

Hi to everyone.
My name is Kim Mecca!

I dream of a world where love, space and rest are skillfully employed as powerful problem solving forces, people are at ease with vulnerability, sugar is as illegal as cocaine, and organic is the new non-organic.

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Inspiration category

Coming from two
different cultures has
been instrumental in
how we’ve approached
our design process.

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expansion, just a girl

The Joy of Freedom

There’s a lot of talk that goes on about “not changing who you are” to be in a relationship.  About staying true to yourself, your loves, your dreams, about being supported in them as a requirement for a relationship.  But…


Relating Outside Your Imaginary Lines

Life happens in patterns. Beginnings and endings.  The four seasons. Sunshine after the rain.  In our own human interactions, we tend to have our patterns.  Think of Trump’s falls and rises. Think of someone who has a cheating pattern, a…


More on trust…

Trust tends to so commonly be associated with honesty, fidelty, loyalty.  The lack of trust, by default thereby relating itself to dishonesty, lies, disloyalty, infidelity. But really, when you stop and think about it, trust is feeling, some sort of…


Eyes Wide Open

It slowly creeps And builds Not loathing, but some elements of it Look and see See with eyes wide open See, truth Misalignment And all that creeping Becomes one moment, seeing with your eyes Knowing It’s time to let it…


Painting of the Mind

She’s got nothing on you kid Oh how lovely you are And the words trail into the bedroom forever could never feel long enough for me, to feel like I’ve had long enough with you discovering each  new landscape inside…


my own meditation

“Why do you come to sit in meditation? Why don’t you make writing your practice? If you go deep enough in your writing, it will take you everyplace.” (From Natalie Goldberg’s Writing Down the Bones)

just a girl, uncut


this is how she feels when she thinks of him wrap her arms around him happy to be warm near him and take him in he stays close to curl into him during the night warm, safe, solid present loving…

grief to relief

Never imagined you wouldn’t be here It’s not like we took it for granted. There was ample awareness of the sacred bond we shared. And now, in disbelief, my ears reach for your voice. It echoes in my mind, almost…

grief to relief

Divine Inquisition

As curious and inquisitive as I am, I am not much of a prier when it comes to others.  If I’m prying, that’s usually an indication that I am in a doubtful state.  I usually just practice focused observation to…

building bridges

Common Sense Nervousness?

I’m always boggled by people who tell me they get really really nervous before a first date.  How nervous are they really? What are they afraid of?  Rejection?  If a complete stranger calls you up and tells you they NEVER…