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December 2011

building bridges


A recipe for disaster, well in my opinion anyway : …the singular fantasy of human intimacy: that one plus one, will somehow, someday, equal, one” Committed, Elizabeth Gilbert This is my biggest fear.  Why would we want to be one?…

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when you’re not looking

moving on happens when you’re not looking it sneaks up on you when you’re busy doing other things new lips brush gently against her  face on a cold night unexpected he beams when sunlight spills into the room as if…

building bridges

The other way around it?

The tendency, I believe it is fair to say, with dating, is to put best your best foot forward, especially in the beginnings of courtship (ah courtship – what a beautiful thing!). You know look your best, walk your best,…

building bridges

A Family Christmas

We have a policy in our family that sais that nobody should spend Christmas alone.  As such, we have an open door policy that welcomes, year after year, a variety of people to join us for the holidays. Some years…


Could vs Should

“Just because we could, doesn’t mean we should.”  My friend Maria (who happens to make the best vegan brownies ever) said that.  She was relating it to  the food chain, I’m relating it to many things. Over consumption, for example…

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love as freedom

‎”If you cage a wild thing, you can be sure it will die, but if you let it run free, nine times out of ten it will run back home.” ― Fannie Flagg, Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistlestop Cafe…