David Deida

the ♥ files


she moved slowly oh so slowly running her fingers against the dark, soft, shinning cherry wood looking at him with question marks in her eyes aching for spiritual communion aching for his depth to help her go even deeper yearning…

the ♥ files

love first, question after

sooooo well said and a magical experience   🙂 : The next time your woman is in a bad mood, try this: Assume she is not feeling loved. Simply assume it, even if it seems that it can’t be that…

building bridges

The importance of depth

Women are moved by depth. It’s why we seek out such deep connections with the people we relate to. It’s why historically we’ve had nurturing type roles. It’s why we feel so much compassion and empathy and MUST act on…

building bridges

the man’s secret weapon

It’s no secret that men love teaching women (how to do) things.  And that they are great at it!  And that this exchange of giving and receiving creates a dynamic has a swooning effect on women and a puffing effect…

the ♥ files

the ship and the ocean

I  am the ocean and you the ship without me you could not travel and without your direction, we would not get anywhere   I know you become fearful at my never ending vastness and depth but you must know…