There are many reasons why people choose to commit – but there is only one sustainable reason and that reason is love.
As you decide to “love” someone for “the rest of your life” make knowing their values a priority as sharing the same values is what gives your love sustainability. Basically choose someone who is as beautiful to you on the inside as they are on the outside (and the outside refers to a panoply of things like things, looks, status, deep pockets, and all that blitz).
just a thought…
(I love this concept so much, because we can be so jaded in our choices – and although “love” and “friendship” seem to just happen to us – the mere fact of being aware of what we notice in people guides what we draw into to our lives.)