Answer: It means I listen to her needs and concerns, not with my head, but rather my heart and soul It means I know when something is bothering her or she is not feeling well. It means I know how to get thru when she is evading or doesn’t want to talk. It means I will not let her get me off balance, I will always be there for her. She can be a megabitch , and I will continue to cherish amd adore her. I will make her feel safe, secure. She can be free to express herself in any way possible.
– James Archambault
Wise (and precise) words. Also they way, straight into my soul.
Thanks James for giving me the words now to express what I need from a man. Never could formulate it this way. I pondered that and I realized, how could I? I can’t speak in male terms about needs I need from a man being a female. Makes total sense now. So maybe the answer to successful communication when relating to the opposite sex is to have a same gender person as an intermediary, kinda like a translator. Who knows… either way I love the words.