“Shoulding” all over others

One of my pet peeves is people who “should” all over others.  You know the expression, “Don’t should all over yourself?”  Well people tend to “should” on others as well.  And it peeves me off.  It’s meant with good intentions…

building bridges


The harder you work, the harder it is to surrender. -Vince Lombardi Most women have become very adept at “doing” and this is a great thing. We’ve created careers for ourselves, we run organizations, we manage families and schedules, we…


An Empowering Metaphor

On my way back down from the daily run yesterday, on serpentine road, running with my new partner, I was thinking about the icy conditions from build up of  compiled snow and thaw. The road was well maintained, there was…


2011!!!! Ohhh yeeahhhhhh!!!!

THE POWER OF EMOTION AS LEVERAGE Just a quick note because I know that so many of you today will be setting your targets for 2011, if you haven’t done so already.  Remember that everything you want to have, to…

mwa mwa

Have to, Have to, Have to…

Have to, Have to, Have to… I cringe at every sentence that follows those words. Even when they’re my own. My brain just short circuits and erases everything that follows…. kinda like the mwa-mwa effect in a Charlie Brown cartoon….