"stop trying to dance to a rhythmn that isn't yours. nothing out there belongs in here"
About Me

Hi to everyone.
My name is Kim Mecca!

I dream of a world where love, space and rest are skillfully employed as powerful problem solving forces, people are at ease with vulnerability, sugar is as illegal as cocaine, and organic is the new non-organic.

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Inspiration category

Coming from two
different cultures has
been instrumental in
how we’ve approached
our design process.

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the ♥ files

Dance me!

When I was a little girl my dad would have me step onto his feet so he could dance me. At weddings and parties, I could always  count on my dad to thrill me on the dance floor. My parents…

just a girl

like a cactus in the desert

When every cell of my body wants to be done with it I miss you a word, a feeling, that experience and use sparingly but about you, it’s clear A feeling slowly emerges  and I soon recognize it Like a…


What do I need to stop doing?

Most of my training has taught me to move people (and myself) TOWARDS an intended experience as opposed to away from an unwanted one.  But Rick Warren spells out an effective technique in his TED talk.  Before you do anything,…


Look forward, take one step closer

Some things, even for a writer are difficult to put into words.  I’ve lost some of the people closest to me in the last last years.  Each one following the other with the coming of the fall season.  I consider…

the ♥ files

Unconditional conditions

A facet of unconditional love means loving someone for where they are even when it’s not where you want them to be. When we marry the term love with relationship -this becomes a challenge in the longterm sense.  It’s easy…


Keep your friends close, your enemies closer

Keep your friends close, your enemies closer. Many people believe negative emotion to be man’s worst enemy. So long as you condemn negative emotion (in yourself and others) you keep yourself apart from the power it contains. When you make negative…


with each moment my heart is less and less wrapped around yours I find myself freer and freer from that ties that bind my heart is a little brighter my step a little lighter free from you not looking back…


Facing one’s fear

Having walked on fire  several times, I can testify to the very powerful act of facing our physical fears.  Doing things that scare the living the daylights out of us can have create huge waves of shifts in all areas…

the ♥ files


don’t wanna talk about  it or tell you who I am or listen to you tell me people aren’t explained, they are experienced don’t want leftover’s not your’s or anyone else’s no hand-me-down kinda love there are no half measures…


How to Tell the Rain

Heavy and thick And cold comes as the wind picks up Trees swaying in unison   You taught me how to tell the rain How to feel it’s coming on my skin And in my nose How to tell my…