building bridges, expansion

Expansive Intentions

Love does not obey our expectations; it obeys our intentions.” -Lloyd Strom I have a firm belief that we can change the way we relate to someone if we truly commit to doing so.  I’ve been able to demonstrate this…


The Observer Effect

So a few of us had a discussion today about some innovative ADHD treatment techniques derived from the Barkley Method. The following technique was suggested by a psychologist to a woman with a highly intelligent child tagged as having ADHD:…

grief to relief


it’s a different kinda feeling now this waiting for peace oh but it’s always there but how else to make peace but to be it and so in this moment I am despite the dull aching somewhere in the voidless…


someone else’s feet

chasing shoes that didn’t fit only then to see she was trying to dress someone’s else feet then she saw it kept her weak to hang on to those ideals to let an us be defined by a they who…


Controversial, for sure

It’s insane don’t you think that our society teaches women that the only way we can get what we need from men is through manipulation. How’s that workin out for you ladies? Seriously? The measure of an action posed is…



it’s the way you fix things no, the way I watch you fix them steadfastly focused, centered, determined I love it it’s the way you need to make me smile the way you need to do your job the way…

building bridges

The purest form of love

I’ve made reference to this in a previous post on Ownership but I’m here to say it again. And again. And again. The purest form of Love is FREEDOM. It’s that simple. You want be loving, set yourself free, set your…

building bridges, just a girl

So you want in?

The Secret to a Woman’s Heart… This one’s been on my mind all week and I want to get it down on paper before I leave for paradise on Sunday… still, it’s a draft. Gents it’s very very very simple…

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Why not answer the call?

The thing about relationships is that they shine a very bright light onto everything you don’t want to see… about yourself. Your negative habits, behaviors, states, attitudes, the things you refuse to do or change, your weaknesses. Your inability to…